Ep. #491: Desire vs Want—and why YOU have what it takes!

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00:00 So y'all are witnessing me going through a massive, massive change. I don't know if you saw the free group. I'm gonna change it to where it's not a longer free group.
00:10 We're changing it to the bad b**** bundle membership and it's a 14 day trial. We've got, we're giving people at 14 days were cleaning it all out because I want to spend my time and give my energy to the mastermind community and magic b**** codex and a podcast.
00:25 So this lady in like, shit's going crazy with our ads, It's just, it's insane how it's all working on it's everything that I've teach here.
00:35 I'm like energetically if we really want something or we don't want something we're gonna get that. It doesn't matter what we say and do energetically it's like we're gonna get what we are matched for like y'all I'd love it here There's an energy here where I just want to that's why I cry all the time
00:50 because it feels so good being here It feels so f****** safe this community. I just want, and that's why I'm here.
00:56 That's why I'm here Let's talk about you first, okay? So because of things changing, I had a few calls came through, and because calls are, they're not over, like we're not, what how are we're this?
01:10 Overbooked. We're not overbooked, so I was like, you know what, let me just do that in a call. I need you to go do all this other stuff.
01:17 And so I was like connecting with the person that was going to do the call. And I mean, it's just not how we're this.
01:24 Let me wait till after Christmas, oh my god, flip and out about money and all this stuff. And then it gets down to, because, you know, like you watched the bad b**** bundle and I'm so f****** close, like those funny memes that are like this, like this.
01:37 Y'all, I'm so close to just putting hormones in there and calling it a f****** day. Because I heard something in a day that changed my perspective on everything.
01:46 And it's almost like I've been needing to hear that for permission. Desire versus want, okay, a need. And I know a lot of your heart centered people that struggle to like charge what you're worth.
01:59 And I heard something that said, When you feel like people need your service, you will undercharge, and then you'll feel guilty about charging and it'll take just one person to do this and you'll feel guilty on what you want.
02:11 And that's pretty f****** true because I feel like a lot of people need it. But at the end of the day, there wasn't this like, how do I work this?
02:20 Like, yes, do people need the work that we have here, not once, yeah, I mean, sure, like, everybody needs some pot, yes, right?
02:27 But actually, they don't, they could just continue their lives like you. You could have continued your life as it was, and you're inside of you right now.
02:35 Like, what are you, what are you feeling right now? If I would have said, just stay the way you were.
02:38 Like, what would you say? Some of you were like, f***, like, what? Casey, I mean, lost your, a lot of you were just really questioning my sanity, for even saying that.
02:46 A lot of you were like, almost offended that I even said to suggest that you stay the same, right? Did you see anybody feel that way?
02:53 Like, oh my god, I can't, why are you talking about stay the same? No f****** way. So, because that's the way I am, like I absolutely not.
03:02 But there's a lot of people out there, just like this other lady. She could think of a thousand reasons why.
03:08 It was just, she was obviously okay with where she was at because if not, she would have been so uncomfortable she had to do something.
03:16 That's why I say, like, I can help the one that's fed the f*** up or like desperate. But I had another higher conversation about this today, and I want to share that with you.
03:27 So she's like, think about the gym because, you know, we've got the mastermind, right? The mastermind, five to seven K, and then magic b**** codex is 10 to 15.
03:37 You know, it's going to, those are kind of what's, that's the vibe right now. That's the vibe because I'm the f****** vibe.
03:44 And then you and me together is even like the better vibe, right? So people that need the program are like people that need to go to the gym.
03:52 This is y'all I'm telling you, this is like blue moment I heard this. So think about it. If you go to the gym, the people that are in there, are they the ones that really need to be there or no?
04:03 No. The people in the gym, most of them are pretty in shape, like the people that need to go to the gym right home, saying they need to go to the f****** gym.
04:12 The people that are in the gym are like you and me. Like we want, like Nikki, there's no f****** way I'm gonna remain mediocre.
04:17 There's no f****** way I'm gonna keep this satellite. There's no f****** way I'm gonna settle. There's no absolutely I'm in there because I f****** love myself.
04:24 I'm a better parent when I work out. I feel better, I perform better in my business. Again, right, I'm gonna f****** work out.
04:30 I desire to be the best. I desire to be a f****** echelon, desire to be hot. I desire to be sexy.
04:37 But you know what I'm saying? It's a different energy need, need versus desire and want. So at the end of the day, like y'all, I see a thousands of people.
04:45 Do you know how many people's on my list? Like just opt-ins, and we've spent hundreds of thousands of dollars, I feel in sense energies.
04:53 And I'm telling you right now, those of you that invested to be here, desired. Deep down, yes, sure you can tell yourself you needed this, but deep f****** down.
05:03 You desire big things. You desire like this magical, beautiful life, healthy sexy, magical rich, tan, good like you desire to have it all.
05:17 You see how you're different and not saying you're better, I'm not saying that I'm saying just right now I know a lot of you struggle with those self-esteem sometimes because it's just human and I know a lot of you get down in yourself and I'm telling you right f****** now.
05:28 Me and Nicole Mary like Gracie, we all see my team. We see the front line, the energy that's out there and some of these women in the fact the the you girls that are here to have invested the money and the time.
05:42 That's why you're going to get what you're going to get and don't you f****** even think about stopping you can slow down okay you can definitely slow down at times but don't ever I don't have to tell you not to give up because that's not in you.
05:55 So if you ever do get down or anything I just want you to know Like, you being here is, I can't, it was the word here.
06:05 Like, you being here, it's like, it's done. I can't explain it. It's just kind of, oh my God. Jamie said, miserable and hopeless, if you stay the same.
06:17 Right, but you know, Jamie, a lot of people don't mind staying the same. A lot of people, they don't need, like, they could think of a thousand thing.
06:25 Well, I need to pay this. I need to pay that, like, Their cool would just stay where they're at, but like you may everybody that's invested time in money to be here, we're not okay with just staying where we are.
06:36 You know, we didn't need any of this. Like we don't need hormones. We don't need trauma clearing. I mean, it would suck otherwise, but plenty of people live that way.
06:46 You know, but we desire and want to feel better and design and want more out of life. That's beautiful. And you deserve that.
06:57 And I deserve that. You know? So, but the analogy about the gym, the need versus the desire and want, and I just want you to know, like, if you are here, and yes, you may have felt like I was fed up Casey, I was at this, and I was desperate or whatever.
07:13 That's maybe true. It may be true. But there's Also, a part of you that deeply desired more because you know you're f****** meant for more.
07:23 You know you are important, deep down, even though we all got this parts of us that doesn't feel that way, you f****** know there's a part of you that's huge.
07:31 There's a part of you that's really big energy, big d*** f****** energy, not too big, where we can still put our legs up and say deeper, but nice, it's a nice, big d*** energy.
07:45 Lesbians, you gotta give me, you know, what can we say for my, for my, for my LGBTQ community because you're my, you know, I like y'all crazy, right, resilience is fight is there even when we're down, you nailed it Rachel and like that makes you want to cry and y'all got to realize I don't cry with anybody
08:08 , like y'all my f****** b******, y'all are my f****** b******, resilience. The fight is here even when we're down. Yes, actually, what's up?
08:19 This group keeps a lot of people going. We can lean on each other and borrow the energy from each other and get through 100%.
08:25 This is a big energetic type of group. And I'll tell you this year was really hard because when I tried to like bring so many different people in, and their energies got cost in to bring in people in, They got kind of dirty and some people made their way out.
08:42 It feels so good right now. Mary told me in the day she goes, I don't know what's going on, but your community, the girls, it's different.
08:50 And I'm like, oh, thank you. We have been working on it energetically. So I'm just kind of here to let you know, lots of changes are going on.
09:02 So that's just, yeah, lots of changes are going on. It's good, and I could sit here. I told McColton on, I was like, I could sit here and get really scared.
09:13 But there's something in me that's like, it feels like Scott, I feel like it's like this rod of my life.
09:20 I'm creating the coolest chapter in the book that I'm gonna write. Like I am creating the next program right now.
09:26 It's f****** cool. That's all I can say, and you are getting to witness that. I've made some of the most meaningful friendships in this group, right, Jamie?
09:32 And in the free group, I just, we had team meetings, we talked about it, and it's just, we're done. And this should show all of you women to it's okay to change as you expand.
09:48 It's okay to say no to things that are not feeding you. And that free group was like, I would be resentful almost when I would be in there.
09:55 I'm like, oh, it's not that I had to choose, but I do have to choose, because Because energetically, we only have so much energy in a day.
10:04 And I rather spend that with you. It's like, mastermind or magic bee. If I'm going to be putting my energy into something, it's going to be with you girls or magic bees, like, period into story.
10:17 So in my podcast, obviously. So yeah, that's what's going on with the free group. And I'm so close and I just felt at this has been scary for me, like the membership thing and we'll probably increase the price whatever, but the membership thing it's like, Oh, we're this.
10:40 I'm contemplating like, do we put, you know, I want to put hormones in there. I want to like, Give them the thing, but the ones that desire more, the ones that desire these conversations, the ones that desire me like this and even deeper, because you know, like, those of you that are in a more, like,
11:00 you see a whole different side of me, Rachel, Nikki, you've always said that greatness is only other side of fear and jump.
11:08 Yeah, yeah, I love you. Ah, yeah, so as we want to the app, as we launch this new membership thing, I'm really getting to the point where it's like, you know what, if people want to be in my energy, they'll pay somewhere between the five and 15k, you know, we've got, we'll show them the options are, 
11:30 and if they want to be here with you girls, to me, you girls, they don't But they're going to commit to that to be in your energy, because you girls do a lot of work on yourself.
11:43 The vibe is high here, you know, something must be going to happen. I've got a sore throat, I'll actually, you feel it too.
11:51 There's a huge upgrade going on. Like you all know this too, when I rise, we all rise. So I just wanted to come on and share that and the gem analogy was so nice for me.
12:03 It was so nice for me to hear that about need people that need to go to the gym, they're not there, people that want to be there and desire more, so I just and I just like these girls have to know how bad as they are, like you have to know how bad as you are.
12:19 So yeah, she goes like Sarah says, it has to be an equal energy exchange. You can't give it to the free group and get nothing in exchange.
12:25 Yeah. Yeah. And that's what it felt like. And so you'll see in the call, what we're going to try to do, because it'll be, it's going to take a minute to transition.
12:34 You can imagine we got 6,000 people in there, half of it's not active, half of it is. So it's going to be a minute.
12:41 So we're going to get married and to call to help out. They're going to do some Q and A's in there to just help.
12:46 Here's you go this way this way. I like to guide people, but that's what it's going to be like Moving forward.
12:52 Yes, I'm so sick right now. It's a perch for the good things coming Rachel. Yeah, I had all remember that was I had it our whole family had it probably beginning of November and I lived in the IV therapy lounge every f****** week and I'll tell you I recently got a 10 grams of vitamin C y'all.
13:11 Let me tell you about that. I'm probably I'm actually need to do a whole different live on that or maybe Vernial can clip this part out.
13:18 So I did 10 grams of vitamin C because you'll know for Epstein Vora. I wanted to test it out. And those of you that have high viral loads, you can go and get the high dose of vitamin C of a therapy intravenous.
13:29 So I tried out 10 skip to 20 and I did a B6 with it and glutathione glutamine because I felt like when I was getting run down.
13:38 So if you're feeling run down, go to the IV therapy. I'm telling you it works. But anyway, with the bottom and see, I got the worst y'all, my team knows I could barely talk like, I was fine, but I couldn't, I was hard, it was hard to talk Friday.
13:52 I had a headache from hell. I was, what do you call it, die-off? The die-off symptoms were f****** horrendous for the bottom and see.
14:00 Because I wanted to do an AD therapy as well, but it's a four day build up and I'll just, I'd rather do the bottom and see first.
14:05 But I wanted to give you my feedback on that. So I would be very interested to see if any of you get the high high dose of vitamin C, the 10 grams through IV, tell me how you feel.
14:16 It almost skipped was low key getting pneumonia. It got in his lungs and everything. And he goes, I'm about to have to take in a body.
14:21 Come on, go get the IV and he did it got little worse. The night he got it and then, magically within two days gone, I cannot make this shit up.
14:31 Cannot make this shit up. So the 10 grams of vitamin C was a huge win for us, just say him.
14:39 Yeah anything else you don't want to share anything because I just wanted to come on and say that about you girls just to know if you are here.
14:47 And hopefully we can send this out in the email because I know there's a lot of people that's not in this community.
14:51 They don't have social media. We're also, we got school, which is a new application software that you log into. We just haven't launched it because it's ready, it's sitting right, it's sitting on go.
15:03 It's just because we're launching other things for the end of the year. That's all. So, but I really am about to really put my energy.
15:11 I think into the b******** membership and say, hey, you know what? Sure, here you go. Here's what you want. Or here's what you think you need and want.
15:19 But you know what they want. You know they really want to be here. They want to be in this conversation.
15:26 They want to be in your energy. They want to be in my energy. They want support, right? But I'm just to the point where if I can just energetically feel like it's only you and magic be.
15:42 Oh my god, I can't tell you what that does for me. I can't tell you the expansiveness of in that.
15:49 Yes, okay, cool. But yeah, that's one to come share that tonight. Anything you want to share before you hop off, wins, or questions, hop body app.
15:59 We are all loading. I've got 250 more at workouts to add. That's f****** crazy. 250 more workouts to add. So we should be done.
16:07 Blake said I could launch at this week. I might do, no, no, no, no, I need at least another week or two.
16:13 So we're working on getting that up. And here's the deal with hot body. We're going to launch it and then constantly upgrade.
16:20 We're going to add features on it. I'm going to add a feature to like and true coach where you can say, you know, the exercise that you did, you can make comments.
16:27 It can remember what you a week ago. We're doing it to where I can see all photos when you upload them and we get admin gets notifications like true coach.
16:36 I'm going to add this part, f****** love this part. Because you know we do a lot of workouts that's 60% 80% or whatever of your max lift.
16:45 I want it to wear it, it'll do that calculation for you. So if you put in, you know, you did 135 or 4, it's going to tell you your 1 rip max and it's going to tell you what your 70% of that is.
16:55 And then once that's done, we're going to merge and start building the nutrition part. So I'm going to, so imagine neutral plan.
17:04 My fitness pal had a baby. That's what I'm creating. It's really f****** badass. It's our, it's got started in 2021 and the coder that was doing it went through a nasty divorce.
17:14 And I'm like, you know what, we're doing other shit too. Let's just pause. And we got the fitness app going.
17:18 So just know that it's the very beginning of a big big thing. And those of you in the management will always have lifetime access to that app, okay?
17:26 So there's that. I think we're going to run it like maybe 20 bucks a month or something like that. I excited for you in this next step.
17:32 Absolutely love the script and you love being in your energy and the group. I feel so proud. Everyone here and for you all the amazing changes over the years, right?
17:39 And it's only going to keep evolving because that's what we do. That's what we do. That's what we do. And we love having you here, Rachel.
17:49 I mean, you enrich this group so much. So thank you, Jamie. I met you and I felt desperate for help almost three years ago and so grateful.
18:00 My life has changed more than I can ever imagine doing this work. Yeah, yeah. So those of you that are watching this, we only had a couple.
18:08 We actually won, one or two people that when we launched the bad b****, you know, felt some type of way about it and I was like, Okay, just know that they don't get this.
18:22 You know what I'm saying? They don't get this and all the support and that's the huge piece. Because I've bought courses on courses on courses, expensive, I've spent probably, what I mean, you look at a, I mean, I've bought probably almost 10 grand worth of courses from Amanda Francis, I love her.
18:45 For money, you know, for money stuff and business. And I've never been in a live container with her. I've never been in her communities, but the ones that I invest in, because I'm invested in others, and they have a community, and the person comes on does a live.
19:01 It's, because I don't want to discredit the, it's just different. It does something for me to have a community. It does something for me, a good community.
19:10 You know mean? So it's really powerful. Cool. Cool. All right. So anything else, before I hop up, I want to give you time to comment because I know there's a lag time.
19:23 Yeah, and just know you're about us. Know you're about us. And if you ever want the plant medicine stuff, you're that's in the healing retreat.
19:30 Richard is going to handle all that stuff. Yeah, he's handling all that. And next year, I'm going to probably what I'm looking into for next year for me personally is I want to to try the, what is it?
19:44 Hold a trophic breath work. There's a girl I know that teaches that and I really want to learn more about breath work because you can release DMT through breath work.
19:53 So I want to learn more about that and educate myself and really just do what I'm telling you all because the things right now in my life it doesn't fill a line are running ads and these like sales call things and just having so many with like the free group just sitting there and women are just like
20:12 , instead, I want it to be like, hey, let's get results. Here's your workouts. Here's everybody's like working on themselves. Everybody's working on themselves.
20:21 Gold driven, hey, here's what's going on. Here's like, just moving and grooving. You know what I'm saying? We're doing, we are progressing.
20:27 We're not just sitting still. So that's my thing. And then what we'll probably do, it'd probably be a good thing to do here in the mastermind, and end of the year celebration.
20:38 We did that two years ago, into the year celebration to call such she's gonna, she actually brought this up the other day about celebrating a lot of the wins, doing it weekly or monthly, like everybody, because she said, y'all are killing it.
20:49 She got on some of the calls, you're like, they're having good results. Like they're having lots of breakthroughs. So be mindful when you're doing this stuff to know what you've accomplished this year.
21:02 What relationships did you and what relationships did you begin, how much I know the weight thing? Money, what did you say yes to, What did you say no to?
21:11 What did you finally get to sit with? All these things, we may do it into the year, the celebration and then carry it into the next year.
21:20 We may do that together to create more energy, good energy, so just say them. This was so good last year, the celebration live, a lot of fun.
21:31 You remember it? Well, I think we drank champagne or some shit. Yeah, I don't know if I'm gonna drink champagne, But it was a really good energy we did.
21:42 Yeah, I mean y'all can drink shit. I may take a sip. I'm not going to lie. I Blake when we finished my app.
21:47 We're popping dumb. We're popping dumb. And y'all what's crazy is is that like the way I was doing business was how I made like all the money.
21:58 And so like me doing this is just like jumping and going I don't know how I'm going to make the money.
22:02 But we're going to do it like in it feels more it feels more than than ever. So this is really cool.
22:08 That's why I told those of you a millionaire matrix. I said, I'm going to have some new modules because y'all I take y'all with me.
22:17 You know, I built this whole program taking you what I was going through. Like, wow, I'm going to get out of it.
22:21 That's why it is what it is. So, okay. I'm going to go and enjoy some dinner. Get the kids down and then I'll talk you soon.
22:33 You know what's going on in the hot and the free group. So all you got to do is say focused on you.
22:38 The hot body app if anything comes up just posted in here. We'll take care of it. If anything in the app, like there's a bug, send it through the app because Blake looks at it.
22:48 He gets all those messages. Nicole's going to be on your calls. What else? What else? I've got a hot seat.
22:55 I think December or third or fifth, I'll probably do a hot seat once a month. And then the call for magic b**** codex, we're going to send that SMS out.
23:05 Wednesday, 7 p.m. Eastern, I do realize that's like the night before Thanksgiving, but those of you that need to be on it, it's, you can take the hour.
23:12 We'll just focus on you, boots you up for the day ahead, and have a solid plan. Okay? Talk to you soon.
23:20 Bye.