Ep. #30: Middle-Aged & Miserable? Here’s Why You’re Still Stuck

This is the hard truth no one else will say out loud. 

In this episode, I call out the comfort zone chaos most women are secretly addicted to. From hormone dysfunction to hustle culture and why your self-help binge isn’t helping, we go deep into the real reason you still feel like sh*t—despite doing “all the things.” 

Trigger warning: it’s not your doctor, your kids, or your past. It’s you.

Press play if you're ready to drop the excuses and finally take radical action. This one’s not for the snowflakes.

00:00 Introduction: Embracing Middle Age

00:12 The Struggle with Weight and Health

00:31 Seeking Attention vs. Seeking Help

00:55 The Reality of Middle Age

01:55 Addiction to the Struggle

02:04 The Cost of Transformation

02:26 Facing Your Fears

02:39 Self-Sabotage and Trauma

03:48 The Importance of Taking Action

05:41 The Role of AI in Fitness

06:08 Overcoming Low Self-Esteem

09:05 The Cycle of Avoidance

09:14 The Power of AI and Personalized Coaching

10:47 The Fear of Success

10:55 The Importance of Hormone and Gut Testing

14:41 The Grief of Wasted Time

16:26 The Importance of Self-Care

21:00 The Need for Integration and Support

23:06 Introduction to Plant Medicine Courses

23:11 Restoring Masculine Energy

23:23 Understanding Grief and Emotional Charges

24:12 Generational Pain and Unworthiness

24:38 Middle Age and Emotional Weight

25:24 The Reality of Daily Routines

26:16 Embracing Multidimensional Womanhood

26:45 Impact of Parental Words

27:30 Cultural Preferences and Body Image

28:11 Black Men and Compliments

31:28 Cultural History and Body Admiration

36:21 Generational Trauma Across Cultures

44:13 Conclusion and Final Thoughts