Ep. #34: From Hot Girl to Invisible Mom: How to Get Your Body (and Power) Back

You didn’t lose yourself.
 You just traded your body, your energy, and your dreams for a wine glass, PTA meetings, and bullshit excuses.

This episode is your wake-up call to take the damn clown wig off, stop hiding behind "being a good mom" or "waiting for the perfect time," and start leading your body, your hormones, your nervous system, and your life again.

👉 Hotmomz AI isn’t just a weight loss program.
 It’s nervous system recalibration.
 It’s metabolic reprogramming.
 It’s identity resurrection.

You want your body back? Your confidence back? Your LIFE back?
 You have to move different.
 Or stay stuck. Your choice.

0:00 Introduction and Identity Crisis

00:51 The Digital Disappearance

02:00 Personal Transformation Journey

03:19 Reclaiming Identity and Confidence

11:54 The Power of AI in Personal Growth

15:33 Shifting Energies and Client Dynamics

22:58 The Illusion of Performance

23:49 The Burden of Validation

24:25 The Trap of Perfectionism

25:18 Toxic Mom Culture

28:04 The Power of Anger

29:44 Breaking Free from Mediocrity

39:51 Embracing AI for Personal Growth

42:31 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

Transcript

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Casey here. We're talking about you stopped being a clown, and we're actually gonna do something about your weight and your low energy and your hormones.'cause right now you just straight fucking clowning thinking dude, telling yourself you're gonna fucking wait and you're watching all my shit and you're not doing your hormones and you're just stuck in being a mom. And you're stuck in, yeah, we're gonna, we're gonna talk about everything tonight. Not to mention how much fucking money you're leaving on the table. Business owners, God almighty, you don't even know how much money you're leaving on the table if you're not in the hot moms ai. And you're not addressing your nervous system and your survival programming and all those things. So that's what we're gonna talk about tonight. I was on my live stream today and they were like, they're just laughing so much at my lives right now. Because someone will say you've changed, some will say you've never changed. And some will say. They love what I'm doing right now. So here's the deal. If you follow me and you're brand new, welcome Casey Ship, hot moms creator of the Hot Moms Lifestyle, the Hot Body Fitness app, and one of the first trauma-informed weight loss hormone offers on the fucking internet. But that was like two or three years ago. Now everybody's like doing it now, talking about nervous systems, and they're talking about hormones and they're talking about all this shit, and it's getting basic bitch. I had to change it again. So now we're gonna lead a different way, and maybe they'll catch on in another couple years. So I'm supposed to be following up with a couple gals that reached out and wanted to join. I'm like, where in the fuck are the people? But it's okay. we'll just start talking. All right, so here's what I wanna tell y'all. A couple things I wanna share with you. What. My AI said about women who change their profile pictures to their kids versus themself. And I've said it before, I'm gonna say it again. you've lost your identity. If your profile picture is of your kids, you completely have just given up. Like your identity is now you've lost yourself. And it happened a long time ago and I'm here to help you get it back. And the thing is I don't work well with, women who are okay with being mediocre and talking about, the toxic mom culture and let me just get some wine and bitch about perimenopause and cell light and how hard it is to, be hot. No. I work with women who are very. Fucking driven. They're about their careers their health and all that stuff. So that's what we do. But I wanted to share with you, I was asking a, I was like, Hey, tell me, here's why I The facts around women who changed their profile picture to their kids. All right. Ooh. It's a digital disappearance. When a woman replaces her face with her kids on social media, she's subconsciously saying, I don't matter anymore. It's a visual cue of self erasure, it signals a shift from I am to, I serve But many women don't transition. They just vanish. And I've got my own story about transitioning. Like I almost lost myself in motherhood, like straight up, almost lost myself in motherhood. But yeah, it's powerful. But many women don't transition. And it says they vanish, they trade personal identity for the title of mom and everything becomes about their kids, not them. And this shows up as no recent photos. Now just calling you out. Just say me if that's you. No recent photos, no solo recent photos on your profile. Yeah. Bios that mention only kid's, husband or job. Oh my God. Women who say, I'm mom. I'm like, I would hate to be your fucking kid. I would hate to be your kid. It's not good. So those three things right there, entire baby fee looks like baby albums done. You're done. You're fucking done. Your identity is gone. You there is no you. Number three, studies show women lose autonomy post motherhood. Alright, we already know this. According to psychology research, minimum report, feeling invisible after having children. God, I remember when I fucking put on, cause I like to show ass and titties. Even when I didn't have any, I got, do you know I got written up in high school for running down the hallway, mooning the cameras. If I stopped in traffic, I would moon people. I didn't even have a good ass. I didn't even have titties. But like I flashed everybody in Panama City Beach. If there was a beat, I flashed everybody. Meanwhile, I am not a whore. But what is a whore? A woman who loves sex? No, honestly, Here's what I call a hoe. cause I love hoes. We were talking today like I'm so ready to have my titties out. I'm so ready to have my, I just ordered some new bikinis, bitch, like they are tiny. Oh, bitches are gonna be so mad. But anyway, to me a hoe is a woman who. Is like trying to mess with her best friend that she's jealous of, partner. You know what I'm saying? That's that undercut shit. I don't even know what word you'd call that, but I consider women who have sex a lot hoes. I do not consider a woman who's had sex with hundreds of men, a hoe. I don't. Or a slut. Like I know they give that term. But for me, I would say hoe would be like, when you're just, you know that somebody's fucking man and you're trying to fuck with them. I don't know. I just think that's fucked up. Whatever. So when I say I was showing my titties in Panama City when I was younger, like people would label me as such, right? I just didn't give a shit. It doesn't matter if I had fake tits or not. Anyway, point is. I'm ready for summertime. I'm ready for bikinis. Amen. I'm ready for asses out, titties out, let's fucking go. But after I had kids, I swear to God, I'm in my closet. I'm in my closet and I start to put shit on. It was after I had my second kid and I was done. So I don't even think I had, did I just have surgery? I don't know. But I was gonna do all I got into it. Like I had penthouse reaching out to me, all this shit because after kids, I'm in my closet, I'm going to put on clothes and I remember something happening in front of my jewelry box where I was gonna wear something. cause I come from competition, bikini competitions and shit. And that's very skimpy. You don't wear a lot of clothes because you're so fucking proud of your body. if you have a glute ham tie in, you're gonna show the internet and you're just gonna do that. Women show their kids. They're proud of'em. And if I get my glute ham tie in, if my glute ham tie in showing bitch, I'm showing you if I've got AB lunch, I'm showing you. I showed y'all my ass the other night hello? I like it. We like this. Anyway, I was sitting there and I was like, I can't wear this anymore. I started like questioning myself.'cause I'm aware and shit. We do like the awareness, aware your thoughts. And I was like, I can't wear this. Like I'm a mom now. And just for just one second, y'all just fucking one second. It stayed in my brain. Not too long because clowns only lose their identity to kids. And you're not a clown anymore'cause you're working with me. But yeah, I did. I was like, I can't wear this anymore. I knew we would find the flow if I just showed up. I knew we would find the flow baby. Alright, so I had those feelings that went through my head, and what do I do? I'm a fucking rebel. I was like no, we're not doing that. I'm not going down that, I'm not doing that. I watched my mom give up her life for the kids and resented us and all this shit. Fuck that shit, man. Drinking alcohol. Fuck that. So I just put on the sexy clothes. I booked some fucking sexy photo shoots and I was like, whew. Snap out. Throw some cold water in your face. I snap outta that shit real quick. I snapped out of it. I actually got on the front of a cover, a really sexy fitness magazine, curves Magazine. Like it happened so quickly and I just loved it. I fucking loved it. But anyway, I'll never forget and let me just back it up with thongs. Okay. Y'all see me in thongs, y'all. Oh, she's just attention whore bitch. Don't tell on yourself. anytime you gotta call me an A, you're telling on yourself. I've always loved thongs because to me it's taboo. if anything where I'm not supposed to do something, I wanna do it. Tell me that I'm not supposed to talk and act a certain way and bitch I'm going to turn it up three notches. that's just how I am. And you can call it whatever you want about trauma authority, and fuck off. I'm leading the way helping women change their lives. anybody that's got something to say about what I'm doing usually isn't doing as good as I am. So take that down. If anybody talks shit about you, they're never doing better than you. You think Oprah talks shit about people? No. Anyway, so I love thongs. I have a picture of when I, once again, Panama City. That's just where rednecks went. I'm from Atlanta, Georgia. Can you tell fucking close to Alabama? Can you tell? Oh God. Ratchet ass. We used to go to Panama City, which is basically not even Florida. Let's be real. It's fucking Alabama. it should be Alabama. the panhandle right there. You know what I'm talking about, like Gulf Shores and all I can't believe that Alabama, Florida, Pensacola should not be called Florida. Like I'm in Sarasota now. That's fucking Florida to me. South Florida feels like Florida fucking all that shit up there feels like Alabama. it's a different Florida, but I remember going to Club Lala, where are my bitches? Who has I go out there, y'all, I am not hot. Okay. Like I'm 20. How old am I 21? No, I had titties at 21. I think I was 20 years old. I still had bee cup titties, real titties, which Lord, what I would give to have those motherfuckers right now, shit. And we're gonna work on those later this year. But anyway, they turned into slut, puppies after I got into fitness. And I love fake tits. Shout out. But yeah, so I get down there, Avila, they're having some kind of contest, so of course I'm gonna be in it. Not that I'm hot. There has always been way hotter bitches than me, but I'm not like the fat girl, like the sheriff. I'm not like her. You know how you get a bunch of hot girls and there's like one just really fucking, just ginormous ugly girl and she's the sheriff. I wasn't the sheriff. Absolutely not. But I wasn't the hot girl, but if you needed the hot girl, like I'm a fucking wicked wing man. If you needed to get into the hot girl status, like I could get you there. So I admired the hot girls, but I never was like jealous of, I just was like, I thought they were like just different'cause they're so fucking hot, they were just go, they were like full, they were like glam. If you watch the TikTok young girls these days, that's the funny Mr. I love Len, but if you watch TikTok these days, like younger girls, y'all what I'm talking about? They're fucking hot and bitch, if I look like you did at 20. I don't even know. It's like you've cracked Da Vinci's fucking code man. If you look like that at 20. Anyway, I look like I had fucking braces again for the second time. Like no titties. I was built like a refrigerator'cause I drank so much fucking what was I drinking? I was double fisting, whatever. I was drinking whiskey and Budweiser heavy bud. Heavy bush light is what I was drinking. Okay. If that tells you how my body looked. Fucking what do you call these things? Love handles. Busted can of biscuits. That was me. That was me. No ass. I would've been the type of woman. Y'all know that type of body type. She's she's like that white woman who yells a lot at softball games and she drinks out of a Stanley Cup and she's built she's got little bitty bird legs in her middle of her body. She looks like kind of Humpty Dumpty. And she's walks like this, like she's gonna whoop everybody's ass, like softball player. But she's really just like fat and angry. I would've totally turned into her because that's where I was headed. And I had little bird legs, no muscle. But I had a thong on him and a buddy. I went to Lala and I had so much fun and I got up there, I shook my ass on Lala stage. It was so fucking fun. Skip got Hammer drunk nose dived into the sand. I don't know how, we didn't get, kicked out of this hotel. He was fucking supposed to be there as a coach on the baseball team. But anyway, I'm 19 years old doing a thong contest at La Vila. Okay. So that's been in my DNA like that's been in me. I love wild shit. I love it. I love it. I wanted to be on Girls Going Wild. My friend was on Girls Going Wild. I was like, damnit God, how, why? I wanna be on Girls Going wild. So anyway, just to give you an example, so fast forward. Here I am now a mommy. I was making fucking multi six figures at this moment. I was doing better than this bitch that was about to say something to me, said something. She was a former client of Skips. She was a mom. She was one of the stay at home moms. She married money and became a stay at home mom. They lived in, this big house somewhere and her fucking kids went to private school. Yeah. drove her SUV and went to church every Sunday. Geez. I posted a picture of me in the thong on a boat and I said something about, your kids and something else, like you can be a mom and still wear a thong type shit. she comments and she was like, she's ashamed me. She was like, something about your mother. And I was like, oh, I just blocked her. You know what I mean? Which by the way, she wouldn't have skipped so bad. She couldn't stand it like literally would have just slayed all slobbered all over it. And she was even married. So it's like those types of girls have always said things about me. So on the internet, I know a lot of you feel me on this, but what I'm saying is the thong and the mom thing, and with the way she said that, it's just sad. It's sad that some women just completely cut off. The girl I was talking to yesterday, she's 29 years old, and I said something about cutting loose and she goes, oh God, I don't know what that's like to have fun. I was like, what? Turns out, she went through some shit. Unfortunate when she was younger. And I was like your kids, they show you how to have fun. Your kids are wild as shit, right? She goes, oh my God. Yeah. I'm like, that's how you were before, before you were told how to act as a girl or how to be, and how people told you how to be and all this shit. So anyway, women typically gravitate towards me because they say that my energy feels like a breath of fresh air. I give them permission to be more of them and all this shit. But yeah, when that lady said, oh, you're a mom now you can't wear a thong. She drank wine every night, always had some shit to say about every fucking body. And she was frumpy looking. She played tennis. She's frumpy fucking mom. She looked like a mom. What was crazy is she wasn't even middle aged yet. She was like, maybe mid fucking thirties. Is that middle age? I thought middle age was like 45, 40. I don't know. But it's just, one of those things where. I am calling a lot of you out because if your kid's photo is on your profile and it's not you, that's a dead giveaway that you, I you're going there, man. You're fucking going there. You better hurry up and come back. And then two, it's like you don't have any recent photos of yourself. You have a bio that only mentions your kid's husband or your job and your entire feed is of your family. Like you have lost yourself. So you find me to find yourself, but you think you're coming to lose weight? You are. Because trying to get in shape is one way that you can hyperfocus on getting your body because your body, we'd covered this the other night. A woman having her body is the equivalent of a man having like a Ferrari. Not even a Ferrari. Because some of you're just like, have shit attitudes. But it's almost like a man liking engines. You know how boys typically like engines and shit, girls having good bodies and wanting to have a good body. That's what it is. So talking about that, the resentment and guilt loop. Here's the deal. When you ditch your identity, you resent your partner, your kids, and your body. Now listen, I've resented all of those things, but I call myself out Really quickly, I start noticing, Ooh, I'm resenting my kids low key. Same thing with these women who are bitching about menopause and all this shit. I'm like, oh my God, I have a total hysterectomy. How am I doing it? It's calling their excuses out because you come to work with me. There's no excuses. you either want results or you don't. So if you want results, you work with me. That's simple. You do the food tests, the gut tests, you do the hormones, and you do the ai. That's pretty much gonna clear your shit because when you do the AI with the subconscious patterns and it pulls you out of spirals before they even happen, your hormones shift and this is what I'm saying about you business owners. Don't tell me you like money. But you're not working with me. Don't even tell me that. If you're not in hot mom's ai, it just means you hate money. It means you hate feeling good and you hate money. That's it. It's okay. Maybe not. You may need to hit rock bottom. So I wanted to cover that one. Okay. We've covered that one. And then this was the big one, man. This was the big one. This was the big one. So I realized as I'm shedding, we're doing a lot, we had that, we had the challenge, the Do nothing challenge by the way, who's on is Waylan? Is that you on? Who's on right now? Who is it? Who's on? We had that do nothing Challenge people. Everybody wanted do it. It was part of the feminine work that I do and the Do Nothing challenge was ultimately Yeah. About, we do less, we get more results, we do less, we get better results. But really it was about the energetics, which everything is energetics, but who's on? Oh God, if you're watching and you've been lurking, go to the link in my bio, buy some shit. We've got two new offers out today. You can get one-on-one coaching for 22 plus 180 7. you'll sign up for 22 and there's a little thing that's you wanna add one-on-one coaching? You can grab it for 180 7 and it's only while you're on that screen. Or you can just come in and get the whole kit and caboodle, the hormones, the heal your trauma. Your life gets better. your children actually have a shot now. That's just, the payments of 75 bucks. go right now. That's what you say all the time. That's why still have cellulite, flabby. Nothing's working out for you, Go get it right now. So Now that's outta the way. as I was doing that, part of our work was where are we performing? Where are we proving things? Where are we trying to be liked by people? For me, the first thing that came through was I used to do coaching calls. I used to do planned coaching calls every week, and it was scheduled, it was on the books, and I did those for years. I'm talking like. Probably since 20 17, 20 18, I would have planned live calls. Oh my God. And it got to the point where I would have like resentment. I did, I would dread them. Not all of them, not all of them, of course. But they felt heavy. It was all this stuff. And I realized that women weren't plugging into the work. I'm like, they were just plugging into me. Yet they wouldn't do anything. They would just get on the call. I would do all this like psychic work for them and all this like emotional lifting for them. And they would feel amazing. Their lives would change everything. But it was only, in my energy and I was doing all the work. So naturally, I hated it. Ultimately, I loved it because part of me felt like I needed to feel. Valuable. And this is where so many women, the same way they think that, oh, it's weight, they have body weight on'em, when really it's like emotional weight. If you just, you carry in the fucking opinions of people, what people are gonna think if you do this or you don't do this God forbid you didn't have Easter Sunday, we have to have Easter says fucking who. You see what I'm saying? This construct you all live in is why you're not fucking happy right now. And so many people are like getting divorces and shit. And I'm like, why? Now you're just gonna be the same miserable bitch with somebody else, or it's gonna be the same thing. You're still gonna get hurt, he's still gonna cheat on you. Like you didn't clear the root issue. if you're not clearing the lineage, the trauma within your nervous system, you're just gonna keep attracting the same shit if you do not clear things out of your nervous system. Because this is why people fell on diets too. Anyway, so I realized that I stopped doing the calls and I was like, it just doesn't feel good to me. It doesn't feel good. That right there was so scary. Like, when's the last time you did something scary? Just tell me,'cause I know it's not recently'cause you've been stalking all my shit and you haven't signed up yet because it's probably scary. Just saying some things here. If you wanna sign up, just head to the link in the bio. But It was scary. Parts of me felt guilty. I'm like, will they want their money back? Is it going to what's this? What's gonna happen? It's what in the fuck you got on your head? So I canceled that and it was so uncomfortable. I was like, oh my God, they're gonna get mad at me. They're going to, they're gonna reneg on the things. They're gonna say stuff. They're gonna, they're just gonna come at me. They're gonna, somebody's gonna be mad. Somebody's gonna be upset if I don't show up. That was one thing, and I knew better. I knew better because the business that I've created now, the women that come into my world now, in 2025, even 2024, this is when it started, 2024, it started. We were counting down the days to some people got out that signed up in 2023 because it was a different energy. Like I was a different energy. I change a lot and often, but it was a different energy in 20 20, 20 21, 20 22, 20 23. Fuck, everybody evolves, right? Some people don't. Jesus. 2023 is when I went through That deep feminine work and I started to pull back some of this stuff. This is what we teach in here. What's not making you happy? what doesn't feel good. Just slicing it out, man. Whether it's friends, it's people, it's places, it's situations, it's things. And some of it was that. So 20, 24, I made damn sure that the women that enrolled were here for the right reasons. it was just a whole different vibe. I was in a different vibe, so I attracted a different woman. I didn't attract the woman who was like, save me, fix me. I attracted more of a aware, grounded woman. Not so much wounded where. If you don't emotionally fucking cater to them, they freak the fuck out. They don't get what they want and then they wanna slander you. You get it. Wounded women who are not gonna go do the work, they're just gonna show up and vomit and like project everywhere. Like my husband's a dickhead, like those types of women who are just toxic as fuck and they bitch about everything and how things are just so hard and frustrating and they got so much to do. That's toxic as fuck. I don't attract that anymore. the women now are more like, if they have those feelings, they'll go clear it, right? We have a whole section on this with AI that helps you clear it within 20 minutes fixes your whole life, by the way. So now it's just a different type of woman. So I knew that when I said no, these women were not gonna be mad. And I even told'em like they were safe enough where I'm like, you girls, like here's how I'm feeling, Not for validation.'cause I made sure I waited a long time to tell them how I felt'cause I was working through it, They were also going through some things as well on their end. And then what happened was some more things started happening and some more things started happening. And then I started doing like these live streams where I'm just fucking just saying the shit like. I think it, but I wasn't saying it like, I'll see a lot of you follow my shit, I'll see the thing where I'll see your profile and it's just your kids and you're reaching out for hormones or like you want the AI or what's keeping you stuck, training or some shit. And I'll see it. And I used to say things like, God, here's her fucking problem. This is her problem is she has pictures of her kids versus herself on her profile. That's her fucking problem. And she thinks it's a fucking workout. Sure, she needs to get this, but the real thing is she, there's no her in there. That's why no diet's working for her. That's why little things come up and just throw her off her shit little fucking schedule that she wasn't even in control of anyway. It says, how can AI fix our lives? Hard to understand, but very interested how I can sense your what's the word? Like how can it fix my life? Have you ever cleared a charge? Do you know what a charge is? Let me know if you know what a charge is, A charge in your body. Hi, Ruby. Okay, so where was I? Are you even using ai? Are you even using AI s in Griff? Are you using ai yes or no for your health and wellness? No. There you go. Okay, so let me get back to my story and then I'll tell you. But if you wanna know how I can fix your life, just go to the link in my bio. It's all there. It's all there. I've busted ass and I've worked really fucking hard to do all that, so I don't have to do all this shit in a video. But you can go to my link in my bio and check it out. There's a seven minute video there. It tells you exactly how it works and I can show you girls, one day like right now, there. Let's just ask, watch here. There's someone on the internet watching and they said, how can AI fix our lives? It's hard to understand, but I'm very interested. I've never used it and I have no idea. Here's how it helps. Oh, ah, all right. All right. I'm not gonna say some of this shit to you'cause you're not alone. It seems confusing at first. The tech bros made it sound like you need to code to use it. But the truth is you create more time. No. This is not, She's not in business yet. You have a business. It talks about like you're gonna make more money and you're gonna create more time because of that. But no. these are women who are mothers and they've tried diets, nothing's working. They follow a thousand accounts trying to find the right fucking smoothie to lose weight. They don't believe in themselves and they're wired and tired. Their doctors are saying they're normal. They can't shit, libido's not there, but they're having sex anyway because they feel obligated and guilty. This is the type of one that usually Finds me. So how would AI change her life? I mentioned our neutralizers, but we need to go more surface level. Alright, here we go. Ready? I do know this woman very well. it rescues you, you do everything. Grocery list, family schedules, client calls, trying to post something. Maybe you don't even something. AI is your neutralizer. It takes the task off her nervous system's plate. You don't need another diet, you don't need assistant. That's what AI does. AI writes your meal plans, your grocery list, your workout track, automates your everything. Most importantly, Let's just fucking be real. You come in, you fill out a sheet just like you would any other coach A questionnaire. We ask specific questions because my AI is trained to look for certain things based on your check-in, based on your food test, based on your workouts, based on your blood test, it can read your nervous system because the reason why you're where you're at, which is not where you wanna be. And even if you are happy, there's a lot more out there for you. It's gonna read that stuff that you don't even see, things you don't even fucking know. It's gonna pick up on that. And then it's gonna say, based on this person's biofeedback, this person's hormones, We have a way to test your stress levels inside. We have a way to test where your nervous system is at, which if you don't fix your nervous system, if you don't heal it and get it back into rest, digest, good fucking luck with any diet, any hormone, any fucking reiki healer any of that shit. It's not gonna happen.'cause your nervous system, this is loops, this is why nothing's ever worked out and you just always have something going on. So our AI picks up on that and it gives you a plan based on that. You literally can't fail. No, you can't fail. And we tell you what to tell it if some shit goes down and then it's gonna tell you why it's happening. It's gonna tell you what's happening before it even fucking happens. So it literally, quantum leaps your results for you. Does this make sense or am I still talking way over the head? cause it's really hard for me to stay surface, but I'll try. So where was I on the story? Women who have given up, like the signs that you've given up because your kids are your identity. All you do is talk about your kids. Your kids are on your fucking profile. What the fuck was I just talking about? What was I just talking about? We were talking about first we went over the thong lady, and then we were talking about missing out on your everything. What the fuck? I don't know. Maybe it wasn't important. maybe it'll come back. S and Griff did that answer your question or no? Or does she, Is she even on here? I'm just loving it. I don't go one day without ai. Not to mention holy shit. The way it picks out the perfect workout for me, it uses my app, my hot body app, and it just goes through all my data. Nervous system tells me exactly which workout to do. Bitches are gonna be mad. That's all I'm saying. Yeah. Oh, the change. The do nothing challenge. So I started doing this with the calls. I started like changing a lot of shit. within myself. And I noticed that I also used to, I used to feel really good thinking, I've got my own house and I'm gonna have people over and cook for them and we're gonna have all the Christmases and all this shit. And that felt good at one point in my life, but now it's oh my fuck that man. Do you think a doctor needs to understand everything a doctor does before they start medical school? So why would you need to understand everything that I do before you sign up? That is the reason why you need to get in to clear that shit, because that's holding you back. That's cock blocking everything you want that way right there. You need to just be like, damn, I haven't heard of that. Let me check your shit out that I ain't never heard of this. This sounds crazy. Let me try it. That's the vibe, but that's how successful people think. And if you are a nine to fiver or you don't work, if you don't think like that, entrepreneurs think like that. And women who are typically moving and grooving, maybe high level corporate stuff like that, It's a different mindset. So don't beat yourself up. You just gotta start thinking like this. If you wanna be a millionaire, where do you gotta go? Hang out with, you gotta go hang out with millionaires. if you wanna look fucking awesome in your life to be easier, not so fucking hard around fitness and health, you go hang around somebody that's got those coats, so easy. That's why I've got a clown suit on right now. it's not that big of a deal. Nothing matters what y'all think. Nothing matters. What your friends think, It doesn't matter. So I started doing all this stuff, changing how I feel and performance and showing up and all that. I used to think performing was this. I was like, oh no. I thought performing was just like doing lives and me showing up. Performance was me thinking that I had to make you feel good, thinking that I had to make sure that you got it, that you understood what I was teaching trying to convince you that you can do it. It was tapping in going to the soul level of your essence to find out where the trauma started so that you cry and feel so seen and heard. And that would make me, all this shit that was performance. And it was like, I felt so responsible for everything. I would show up on a live and it would be just quiet. Everybody was waiting on me to lead everything instead of, Hey, this isn't a fucking museum. I'm here to coach. I'm not here to be your friend. I'm not here to be liked. I'm here to get you the fucking results. So many people, so many coaches aren't that they're, they coach, and I used to do this too. It was like a way to validate, a way to feel liked. God forbid I felt like I hurt a girl. Oh God. If I knew I had a girl that was like really emotional and she really liked me, I would tiptoe. I would try to soften my truth because I didn't, I was just like, I didn't wanna hurt her feelings. That's fucked up. And that takes so much energy. Like right now, how much are you holding back?'cause you don't wanna say what you really wanna fucking say, beyond being triggered and shit. I'm saying you, you get me filtering your fucking truth and that was what I was doing. And that is what gives you adrenal fatigue.'cause then you feel like you're never enough. And I was in that performance mode, improving mode. And all women are that thing about having people over and hosting bullshit that goes back to women being fucking servants and how women feel worthy and valuable.'cause everybody's oh my God, you, this is gorgeous. This is pretty, your house is so clean. This is so good. You're such a good cook. It's that's great. But also a woman, our house, everything, our nice stuff and all that. It's a way to flex. It's the man's engine, right? I get that. But when it comes to, trying to have the Christmas cards and be perfect and be Martha Stewart and all that shit, like some of y'all that, some of that's not in our making. Some of us are here to fucking create multimillion dollar empires and do, some of us have different. Things there was this one lady, she was a dentist, owned two practices. I helped her clean out some things, yes, in her life, but also in her workplace.'cause I was like, this lady you got working for you is shit. She's the mole. Turns out a year later she messaged me. She's you're so right. I fired her and everything. I'm like, yes, she would kill. Like even right now she's still so in survival mode. She lives in her big fucking house and she's got all her little fucking girlfriends who sit around and drink wine. Everybody cheats on their husband. Their husbands cheat on them. Literally, white men are the ones who use. Skip told me this today. the user who pays the most for OnlyFans, middle aged or a little bit older, white fucking men. So anyway, I know this type of woman. I understand her more than she knows herself. So they've got this life going and there's always some bad shit happening. There's always some drama happening. She's the type that posts online when her kid makes a bad grade, there's shame, guilt, there's fucking emotional trauma, all this shit. And she's got this big high up job. And then at the same times around holiday, she gets so stressed out'cause she's trying to get all the cards made. I'm like, if you're really that much of a whatever, you would hire a fucking assistant. Oh yeah, you gotta do it all by yourself. Because that's that thing that feeds her right? And she wonders why she has adrenal fatigue. And when I talk like this, it's easy to see, right? But when she's living in it, she can't see that. It's crazy. But then a woman like that, high functioning,'cause that's who works with me, high functioning, typically high performance. She'll look at me like I did one time, and you go what do I do if I stop all these plates spinning, like everything's gonna crash, my business is gonna crash. Then you're like, whoa. You see how much you were holding up? You see how fucking responsible you were feeling for everything. Wow. That comes from, sure, there's some trauma shit there too, but it also is where we felt like we weren't worthy unless we were doing all this shit and response for everybody's emotions and all this shit. Fuck that shit. That's where your weight's coming from. But it's hard to wear a clown fucking thing and be ugly online right now. It's not, it's easy for me, it's I'm liberated. I have this freedom and when you taste what I have tasted, I'm like, I guess you just don't want it otherwise you would be working with me. that's all there is fucking to it. And if the way you know that I speak scares you. Good. Something needs to fucking shift your ass like you talked to yourself. Way worse than I could ever fucking talk to you. So there's that. But anyway, I think I'm almost done saying all the things.'cause we talked about the lady in the thong and really this was just all about exposing that toxic mom culture, the wine and all this. And yet you're the cutest color on your eyelashes. Look pretty, huh? Thank you. But it's like that toxic mom culture, girls trying to be nice. And then if we're not still like really nice with somebody online just because they're some friend from fucking our hometown or whatever, I don't fucking know. I was only even talked to you'cause I went to fucking school unit and I hated school. Oh my God. You must have changed world. Nope. I only care about three things. my immediate family. I don't talk to my mom and dad, my husband, my two kids, my bankroll, my company and the women who work with me who want results. That's it. that's all I give a shit about. That's in my myself. I'm in there. So if there's a lady on the internet or somebody else or whatever, they wanna waste my fucking time in the dms or do this or him haul around, like I could give a shit. So if I could give a shit, hopefully you don't give a shit. So just start taking your tops off in public? Not really. Okay. Yeah. And that's the thing, you needed to laugh. God, y'all gotta stop acting like fucking moms. You gotta stop acting like old fucking ladies, middle aged, cellulite, big ass fucking, your body looks the way it does and you're sitting there telling your kids they need to go get good grades and they need to do all this shit. Why? so they can be more than you. So that way you feel like you did something better.'cause your kids are better than go grow the fuck up. And that is toxic as shit. Sitting there drinking wine every night, you're an alcoholic. I'm just gonna call it what it is. if you have to drink every night, you're a fucking alcoholic dude. Let's do it. Come on. Not shaming. You're addicted to numbing the pain. It is what it is. You were not taught how to hold emotions. you weren't taught any of this. I can't tell you how many women come in this program before and they leave. They're not an alcoholic anymore. Some of them may have to sit with ayahuasca with me, but we get the job done. This mom culture man, some of being called for higher things. So if you're following my shit and you're still listening and you're not fucking taking action, then stop bitching and wanting results.'cause they're not gonna come unless you take action. Period. End of story. You sign the fuck up, you get in your welcome, you go through the welcome section, you fill out your sheet, you start on your AI program, you get your hormones done, your food test done. In that you're gonna find out so much shit about yourself. You're gonna be like, holy shit. Everything explained I can't believe this. Once you get into the ai, especially, you start doing that subconscious work with the ai, you start tracking your nervous system real time. You're gonna actually, like I told y'all the other day, You're gonna have grief. You're gonna have to sit with fucking grief because you're gonna be like, this was here all along. I've wasted 20 years. So can you sit with some grief? Or are you still bracing yourself for disappointment? Because if you can't handle disappointment, then you're gonna live a very fucking disappointing life and you'll be just like all the other women in your family. I told my husband this morning, I'm like, do you think old ladies on their deathbed says, oh, if I could go back, I wouldn't have shaken my ass as much. No. So I'm doing some big things. You're gonna wish you would've fucking jumped on. Y'all know I'm spot fucking on with everything. I call it all the fucking time. Shamanic power bitch over here, I call it every time. If you're watching, if you are listening to my thing, you're being called up to something fucking greater. Stop thinking about it. Stop romanticizing about it. Making it needs to feel different before you take action, because if that's how it is, you have circumstantial fucking power. When everything feels better, when everything's perfect, then I'll do this. Know you have to learn how to be masculine and fucking feminine. End of fucking story. Get your food test done and don't ask any questions. Do your food test. I just uploaded the AI that helps you go through your food test and exactly how to lose weight without tracking macros. If you wanna lose weight without tracking your food, I just uploaded it. Go check the easy. Mastermind, which all of you have access to if you're in the 4, 4, 4, the VIP if you pay me for corner room, like most people have access to this or the easy weight loss system. It's all there experiencing the breakthroughs and realizing the disappointment. I've been to myself for the past 25 years. Yeah, welcome to the club. That's being brave. Same thing here. If you're not willing to sit with that, then you know what? You're gonna be sitting with that fucking body that you don't like a relationship of. You're just gonna feel like this life you've given up, like that's life and you're sad as shit about it. And there's no SSRI that's gonna fix it. There's no pill that's gonna fucking fix it. There's no white coat out there that's gonna fix it. You said All the courses and classes have changed my life. Thank you, Shere. Shere, it's interesting you watch this. There are other women who watch that have worked with me. They don't say that, so that's cool. That's cool that you say that. I do that too. If there's somebody that's helped me and they're like doing a live or they're doing something, I'll always say stuff. I did it today on high rows. I use high rows for software, for tracking ads. And I commented on his ad. I was like, If you're running ads or you have an online business, like what are you even doing if you're not using high rows? But only business owners get that shit. Everybody else is what's in it for me? I was commenting over on Facebook. Oh really? Oh, I don't see anything. Yeah, I can't see shit on Facebook. Is this Bill? Attorney Hannah? Oh, I see it now here for, yeah. Yeah. There you are. Thoughts on breaking up with the perfection trap? We covered that. It's gonna be hard for you. Hannah, Are you really ready? All right. I'll tell you, I'll be straight up with you. And Hannah's a boss. Like I wanted to talk to you about getting outta the trap of perfection. All right. So hop in the do nothing challenge. You should have access to it, but so Hannah's an attorney. Hannah is not just one of those attorneys who say they're an attorney, but they're struggling to make 30 grand working for. I don't know what she does. She's built an empire and she's just getting started. Okay? Hannah, right now, when was the last time that something come across your desk phone, whatever, and something in you was it really, it frustrated you, but you didn't fly off the handle. If you're ready for it, then get your ass down here for the wild woman embodiment and do some plant medicine. Do some psychedelics with us. But yeah, tell me that today. All right, Hannah. So today you felt something and look, Hannah's being brave right now. Let's be real. You bitch is watching feel the same fucking way. Something came across her desk, her phone, something where somebody it fucking frustrated her and she didn't really say what she wanted to say because it would probably be. She would be losing her shit.'cause most women are afraid of anger. You gotta let that shit go. You gotta say what'd you really want to say, Hannah? Tell me what you really wanted to fucking say to this person or client. I am afraid of my anger. Most women are, I'll help you get to know it. We'll do some cambo, we'll do some buffo, and you will get to know it. You're afraid of your anger, Hannah. Most women are. But let me tell you this. when is the time that you actually got angry that you can remember and you probably got mad at your kids? Let's be real. We always get mad at our kids. I got mad at my kids today and I said, shut the fuck up. they knew they were not supposed to be talking My kids were so good around honoring and respecting my boundaries, and I do the same with them because trust me, they tell me to mom, I'm on the phone, Alright, but tell me when you did let it out, when was the last time you did let it out? Shut up or maybe you were just like, Hey, this is not fucking okay. I want it this way. No, don't do it that way. Like When did you get angry? When did you get angry? You never do. There you go. You wanna lose some weight? We'll teach you how to get fucking angry. Angry is so good. Anger is a gift. Even Rage against Machine says that anger is actually beautiful. It allows you to set boundaries for yourself. Anger is such a powerful wonderful emotion. But if you grew up and you saw people get angry and it caused problems, people got hurt, things were thrown. Little girls stomping their feet and acting crazy. What do people say to them? Sh, be a good little girl. Good little girls don't act like that. Yeah. So women didn't have a voice a few years ago. This is generational. It's ancestral. Yes. But it's also like in this lifetime. So what you need to do, if you wanna get over perfectionism, get angry, but don't give power in a voice. Don't be so upset. Why? Big deal. Fuck those people. And that's what you say to'em, fuck those people. For anyone who hasn't worked with her, Casey has such a gift. A hot moms AI gives you the tools to look deep inside and heal. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Hannah, the first way you're gonna get over perfectionism is the next time something frustrates you. Sure you can do a neutralizer, but it probably won't have time. You're gonna take a deep breath and you're gonna say tell me what you wanted to say though. What'd you wanna say to'em? You need to start firing people, Hannah. You need to fucking fire people and get people outta your fucking life, even if it's just you that's left and there's nobody in that goddamn office and you rebuild. And the second motherfucker comes in there and just says one little thing the wrong way. You're like, fuck you Not gonna do that. Because when you set that boundary energetically universe is gonna bring you people. They're like, okay, Hannah has arrived. She says she wants this, and she says, fuck no to this. So we're gonna give her more of what she's saying that she wants. This is where women, we don't wanna be a bitch. It's not a bitch. We're just not okay with being around mediocre fucks. And guess who's gonna have a lot of problems with this type of woman? Hannah. Wounded women. Fuck them too. I'll fuck with you and other women like me and you. We fuck with each other. I wanted to tell that person that you have no idea who you are fucking with motherfucker. And no word that came outta your mouth has any validity. Why can't you say that? Why can't you say that? You can say that it is your fucking world and it's your work and it's your everything. you can say that, right? If anything right now, whether or not you like who is in office.'cause some people, if you like, he says whatever he wants, and wounded men who say, I just have a problem with that, with men. Oh, honey, listen, you wanna know what I told? Let me just, here, I'll give you an example right now. You ready? Let me just tell you what I told my app developer yesterday. Oh, he just messaged me back. Must have heard us talking about him. I love him. He's a good guy. He also has fucked up relationship issues as well and some mommy issues. So not about to come out on me, okay? I've asked over and over, and this is why I fired almost everybody on my fucking team last year. Like this year, coming into this year, ain't nobody, ain't none on my team. Because if you're not at my frequency, if you're not fucking right here, if you're not doing the fucking work, you're not on my fucking team, period. And if it's just me over here swimming by myself in a boat, then that's it because I'm rebuilding. So anyway, my app kept crashing. Hell, if you're using hot bodies, you're probably noticing this. It kept crashing when you would say like your weights and shit and finish, it would just crash. And I've asked him a thousand fucking times, I'm like, dude, fix this shit. Fix this. And I was so nice about it, man. I've been so nice about Hey man, can you fix this? It's glitching Hey, my app glitches when completing workout Still nice. I said he'll be some, gimme some shit. Oh, you probably didn't put it in right. Okay. Yeah. I'll try again. Hey, any update on when the apple stop crashing? When I complete exercise workouts? I hope all is well. Okay. I did this shit, danced around for two fucking weeks. This week. cause the more and more I do the work from hot mom's AI and the more and more I do the work from Magic B and the feminine work and those wealth activation codes and those, that identity work, Hannah? Yeah. It gets better. This is what I said. Yesterday. I said even though the apply button is still showing and it's been over a week since I asked for correction, maybe we're supposed to do it ourselves, let me know and I'll accommodate. Now I'm starting a new workout, but it shows it's already been done. I thought we fixed it. Where it clears all that keeps the history. It's messy, but expect due to the shit show leadership I gave and I haven't, I've been a shit show fucking leader. I expected him to take the lead. He's not a fucking leader. I hired him for a project. It's like hiring contractors, tell him what you fucking want. So anyway I said, that's in the past. This is now here's what needs to happen. Tell me what needs to happen to make this perform like a better app where it's clean and it says you've already completed this. I said, and if I need to give you 10,000 fucking dollars every month to keep it top-notch, then let me know right now because this is moving in a snail's fucking pace and it's holding me back. But if money is a thing, you tell me right now. Because sometimes people just don't say something'cause they're afraid they're gonna hurt your feelings. So whatever. And no, I don't, I'm not on my period. I said, this isn't PMS wink face. I have a total hysterectomy so I can keep up with you, bros. I wanted to be like, I probably have better fucking testosterone than you right now. But I didn't say that. happily married 20 years and help thousands of women. I have things working promptly is standard in my fucking life at this point. Anything that doesn't move clear and fast slows me down, baby. I'll get on there and find a new app developer right now. cause this is not the first time this has happened. and also I've fired probably four fitness trainers in the past two months. They'll come in, they'll gimme all this great bullshit and I will fire them. So far I'll be like, oh, you're not working out. And I'll say that. I'm gonna say, you said this and that. You fucking didn't respond for two hours. I'm like, between this time and this time, I need you to respond, but in 30 fucking minutes. And I'll say that and I will cuss and I'll say that.'cause that is me my fucking most aggressive, pretty much. And I won't, unless you're a shithead, you won't ever see that. You know what I mean? So Hannah, you need to say this shit. And if the man wants to say that to you and think that's their way, then fuck him too. Like literally fuck him. You don't keep feeding. You're saying, fuck outta here. You're fired. There was this girl today, she gets her panties in a fucking bunch.'cause her, something's not working out here. And I'm like, I can give a shit. Used to. I'd be like, Ooh, ooh, let me try to rush in and fix. So she doesn't do a chargeback or she doesn't get mad at me. Fuck her. She can go clear as shit. I've given her plenty. And people like her, you can't fucking help. Anyway, she's got what she needs. She can sit the fuck down. She needs a leader sometimes. Sometimes we need to be talked to like that. You need to calm the fuck down. You're like, yeah, I do. Thank you. Thank you for, thank you. You know what I mean? Because a real man's not even gonna, he's not even gonna respond. So that's how you break that right away. I could, it would have what kind of consequences? Now go back Hannah. when this guy first came into your world, was there anything in you that did not feel good somatically? Was there anything in your body? think back, and I know you fucking know the first time this motherfucker came into your life, did you know it's in a group I'm in let's scale back this guy that's in your life, whatever. When was the first little thing that you either something in, you said, probably don't even need to connect with this guy, or you being in the group, you felt the energy immediately. Like a long time ago? Yes. You felt the energy immediately. Yes. I'm assuming that's what it is, because I don't wanna say something and it not be what she's talking about. Sorry. There's a delay. Okay. You wanted to be in the group, but you felt the energy immediately. Okay, so it was a few months ago. All right, so there you go. So now this is you forgiving yourself and now you learn from that. Now you say that feeling that you had months ago, is your sign to say no. There you go. So this is just you trusting yourself and yeah, that's painful, but it pays off. Big time. Big time. If you watch my videos from just three years ago and versus now it looks like I'm a little bit more free, like it's gonna pay off big time. You go. Yeah, forgive myself. Part's a big one, step two. This is where you use ai. You need to start using AI for this shit. Do a neutralizer while using ai. Go through clear my shit. I have it in there, like how to use AI with it. But that's how you start to heal perfectionism right there. You speak the fuck up and then you think back. Don't beat yourself up.'cause you're like, I could sit here about this app developer right now. The person that I was when I first hired him, she's not the same person. So I do know that I'm gonna piece some stuff together here and probably start moving in a different direction, that's okay. This says I left the meeting and felt, I believe me, and I knew it was fucked up then. Okay, that's what you do. You start there. You go back to that original point, you go, yep, I knew this, I knew it was a thing. and keeping people around longer than you need to that's something you gotta grow through, but that's how you break the perfectionism thing is. Just look. That's why Hannah, when you signed up the other day and you were like, let me I'm gonna do this when I get back. And I'm like, fuck no. Sign up now. It's a fucking payment link. I didn't say that, but basically, and you were like, yeah. And then you got, I thank you for being on me. The old me, Hannah would've been like,'cause you're powerful. Your energy is powerful and I wanna respect you. I want you to like me. I want you to do all this shit, but I didn't that day. cause I knew you needed to be here. And I was like, Nope, you do it. Now, you could have taken that and said, Ew, this is not the vibe. That's fine. I would've been okay either way, but you didn't. And you were like, yeah, she's right. That was aligned. You're being called forward because now you're getting to clear some perfectionism shit so you can level up and step into an even bossier fucking position, but being an attorney, being a dentist, being like a doctor and all that shit, where you gotta have this image that's an old construct as well that you can fuck up, that you can totally just, and create your own. You don't need those fucking groups anyway. And if you think you do well, then go love on her. You reached out at the precise moment. I needed it. Yes. But you and I both know a lot of women couldn't have a lot of women would have taken that because they're just looking for a reason to say no to themselves. And I reached out and they'll be like, that's a little, yeah, she's a little too much for me. I'm like, yeah, bitch, you're just not ready. That's just all that is, but you're ready. You're ready. You picked up on the call I was putting out. I was nuanced and I'm grateful. Holler. Keep it up. Look, it's not gonna shift in a day, okay? And I hope you get in with some plant medicine with us. I hope you get in on that shit, girl. I hope you because there's some darkness. That anger. It's a gift, man. Such a fucking gift. Oh, it's so good. But keep it up, man. It takes me a minute. Because you've gotta make the decision, okay, you gotta make the decision, then you have to do the somatic work and then, and it's all happening while you're still taking action. You're still taking massive fucking action. And then it becomes that new nervous system pattern. You need to start tracking your shit with that, with the check-ins and the H rv, like we check and start tracking it and do that identity work so that your AI knows the new identity, okay. That you're creating. And that way it's talking to you like this new future identity that's really gonna help as well. And then of course, keep asking your great fucking questions and we're good. You're ready? Alright. So if it's good enough for Hannah, it's good enough for you. And Yes, God, I've had so many women say they don't feel like they can be here because they're not a cool girl. And I'm like, what in the fuck? Feel that way. But why don't you want to do, let's just break that shit. What's up Gabby? Just break that shit. All right. Are you tired of that fucking story? I had a woman tell me too, she's a black woman. I'm just tired of being the only black woman in the room. I'm like, then stop being the only fucking black woman in the room. Let's clear that too. And then it'll stop. So you create your own reality. You just gotta be, you gotta have the kahunas to do it. When I asked Chad about my HRV it got very worried about me in cases clown hair. Ella, when you ask Oh yeah, about my HIV it got very worried about me. Post your questions about that. In I think you did you? Let's see. Did you ask that question about HIVI think. Let me see real quick and then I'll hop off Community. Let's go to Hannah. Hannah. All right. Oh no, you were asking about the hot moms ai. So right now I'm training y'all with the certain proprietary prompts that I'm using. Hot mom's AI will probably launch in May. I was talking to the girl yesterday, sent her five grand and'cause it's going to the way it's programmed, it's, that's the way that my AI is gonna be programmed is it's gonna be one of the most powerful things on the fucking planet when it comes to health and fitness.'cause it's gonna talk to you like, it's gonna be reprogramming your brain For the identity that you are choosing to embody. Like it's crazy. That's cool. Girl behavior. Ten four HRV Ask in school. Yeah. So ask. I see here catch up about home mom's AI going in the classroom. But when you the thing you just mentioned, I would like you to break it down in there for me specifically. That way I can help. Yeah. Yeah. I'm too, I am so it's a big deal. It's a fucking big deal. Such a big deal. Women who are not using it, women who are not in hot moms are fucking missing out. I guess they just hate feeling good. if you're not using ai, God, m mighty, I can't imagine having a life without using AI for your well Yeah. All right. Stop being a clown. Take off the fucking wig. Take off the fucking mask. Stop being a pussy. Sign up for my offer links in the bio and I'll talk to you soon. Bye.